He has always been a natural dom in his younger years. But perhaps more fascinating is the transformative experience he has undertaken with one of his subs, Alice. Once calling herself he/him/they/them, she has reconnected with her femininity through her submission to him.
Read more about English Patriarch and his experiences with the four girls below.
When did you first realize you’re a dom/patriarch? Can you share the experience with us?
Ever since I can remember I have enjoyed being in charge, and found it easy. I was always the tallest growing up with the strongest, most well-spoken voice. This gave me a lot of natural power. Though I never actually heard the word “dom” at all until my first ever girlfriend said I was one, I remember it feeling like a compliment.
What were your first steps exploring being a dom? How did you start learning about it? And what resources, mentors (if any), and other learning experiences were the most helpful?
I think my first mentor was my father. Seeing how he’d treat my mother, and her response to it, was very educational. I saw him spank her ass playfully around the house, he’d sometimes grab her by one udder and pull her in for a kiss, and she enjoyed that treatment. There were times when they were both talking and he’d simply say the word “Quiet”, and she’d immediately go silent.
I think that informed how I see the natural male/female dynamic. My father and I would sometimes talk about girls (he’s too old fashioned to call them “bitches”) and I’d learn about what worked and what didn't directly from him. We never discussed details, like fetishes or such, but learning the basics early on is such a massive head-start.
Can you recall your first experience as a dom? What was the scenario, and how did it feel to embrace this role for the first time?
Caption: Erin’s unique trait is that she was the only one who came to me as a true virgin and she’s debatably the most devoted to me. She acts as my secretary and assistant now.
Ahh, but what does it mean exactly to have a dominating experience? If I win a tickle fight with a girl by tickling inside her until she wets herself in happiness, am I dominating her? Perhaps it was then. Was it when my first “official” girlfriend asked me to be her first boyfriend, and I agreed but only if she’d call me “Sir” regularly in front of both of our friends? Or maybe my first time dominating a girl was when I first introduced bondage toys into the bedroom? I’m pretty sure my first use of such props was a simple length of rope that I’d bought from a DIY store.
Were there any misconceptions you had about being a dom that were dispelled through your experiences?
I’ve made some misjudgements along the way, I think the most important of which was that I used to foolishly think that bitches knew themselves and knew their own limits, that I could take them at their word: completely wrong. They’d say things like “I have a very high pain tolerance” or “I’d never actually be hurt by degrading words” and then what do you know they were incorrect and it’d end in tears. So I’ve learned to slow down and understand that even if a bitch is begging for X that doesn’t mean she can actually take it.
“I used to foolishly think that bitches knew themselves and knew their own limits, that I could take them at their word: completely wrong.”
Are there any significant turning points in your life as a dom that stand out to you, and how did these affect your approach to BDSM?
Caption: Jackie has (in my opinion) the prettiest face, with the most beautiful smile, plus she dresses the best. Her pure femininity shines through constantly and is real joy. She’s also the closest to me in terms of personality, we share quite a lot in common.
I’ve never talked about this online before but the biggest turning point for me, in terms of how I act, happened when I was 19. I fucked this really hot cunt who said she was single.
We didn’t do anything weird, nothing unusual or scary, and I know that everything we did was 110% consensual because I was there and she was asking me to do all these things to her. I also didn’t photograph or film anything, because I was younger then and it just wasn’t my style at the time.
Turned out she did have a boyfriend and had told him and her friends that I’d raped her. My guess is she expected me to brag about fucking her (which I never did because I’m a gentleman) and wanted to get ahead of that before her boyfriend found out. Some of her friends knew a few of my friends and the next thing you know people aren’t talking to me and I can’t even understand why.
After like a month of this one of our mutual friends eventually tells me what I’ve allegedly done wrong and I finally found out she’s been lying to everyone and saying I abused her. I was still young and much less experienced than I was now, so I was shocked by all this.
However, the story ends well for me because within a week of finding out about her lying I’d confronted her about it, got her to admit to lying and actually apologise to me for making it all up. Then we had another very passionate play session. She’d never even been spanked before but to earn my forgiveness she lay over my lap and thanked me for every spank against her bare bottom.
After that I got her to beg to choke on my hard cock and when I fucked her I made sure she came very hard (including her first ever squirting orgasm) about a dozen times. A few times as I fucked her I even got her to admit she was a lying slut who didn’t deserve my cock.
All of that: her admission of lying, her apology to me, our hours long and undeniably consensual sex… all of that I got on audio recording. I never uploaded it to the internet but I played it for just enough of our mutual friends to definitively prove my innocence. She lost a lot of popularity after that and I ended up in a year long relationship with her best friend.
Caption: Alice has the biggest and best udders (natural 32HH) and gives the best head. Girls always struggle to deepthroat me, but no one else tries as hard as Alice and I really appreciate that. She also has the best smell, something I’ve really grown to enjoy.
“She’d never even been spanked before but to earn my forgiveness she lay over my lap and thanked me for every spank against her bare bottom. After that I got her to beg to choke on my hard cock and when I fucked her I made sure she came very hard (including her first ever squirting orgasm) about a dozen times. A few times as I fucked her I even got her to admit she was a lying slut who didn’t deserve my cock.”
That was a massive turning point for me because after that I’ve always been very careful to make sure that I would never be placed in that situation ever again. Not only do I photograph and film basically everything sexual that I do now, but I also always make sure to send the “Hope you had a good night baby, I had such a great time xx” text and get a positive response back.
Learning to keep yourself safe and protecting your reputation as a man is now more important than ever. You cannot control what others may say about you; but you can do things to arm yourself against lies.
“You cannot control what others may say about you; but you can do things to arm yourself against lies.”
Can you describe a typical day with your girls?
My days almost always begin the same way, being awoken by a long slow blowjob. This task falls to whichever of my bitches is in bed with me at the time. The rest of my day varies a lot, but always includes at least an hour of exercise. I’ll make sure to spend a few hours each day with at least one of my girls, two if I have the time. Having a nice lunch or dinner out with them every few days helps them understand that they are each valued and cared for.
Having four regular girls (and more on the side) requires a mix of skills. How would you describe your leadership style to maintain peace, order, and overall happiness for everybody?
How would I describe my leadership style? Brutal authoritarian dictatorship. All my bitches know they can leave at any time, no questions asked. If they’ve misbehaved in some way then they get punished in some way, if they don’t want to take the punishment then they gotta go.
“How would I describe my leadership style? Brutal authoritarian dictatorship.”
How do you tailor your approach to fit each of your girls’ unique personalities and needs?
Caption: Kendal is the most sexually experienced, which comes with its own advantages of course. She also has the highest pain tolerance, which can be useful if I’ve had a hard day and want to work off some frustration.
I don’t alter my technique that much girl-to-girl, but I do use different levels of speed and directness depending on the girl’s level of experience. With a bitch who’s more sexually experienced I can be less patient, more immediately demanding and even more direct. Whereas with a less experienced bitch I’ll show more patience and take things slightly slower as to not scare her.
How do you address feelings of jealousy within your dynamic, if jealousy takes place at all?
This is honestly the hardest part to deal with. Jealousy is a massive factor when you have multiple bitches who all know about each other and who spend a lot of time together, especially as the feelings intensify over time.
I used to be a lot less strict about how the girls could talk about each other, even when the other ones aren’t around. I’ve since realised that I can’t let them disrespect each other even if the target cannot hear it. So they aren’t allowed to talk negatively about each other, and must instead simply strive to be the best partners they can be to me. I make it absolutely clear to them that trying to put another girl down is just an insult to me, but having them not say it only hides the jealousy, it doesn’t actually remove it. I therefore have individualised little ways of showing each girl that I care for her and that she’s special to me.
“I can’t let them disrespect each other even if the target cannot hear it. So they aren’t allowed to talk negatively about each other, and must instead simply strive to be the best partners they can be to me.”
What are your long-term goals for you and your girls, and how do you plan to achieve them while considering the evolving needs of each of them?
My longest-term goal is to get married a few times (non-legally so the state isn’t involved) and to have a bunch of kids. I want several wives and at least half a dozen children. I’m also a big believer in home schooling so all my girls know that’s where the future is going and I’m glad to say they’ll all very much onboard with it. I don’t expect my wives to live together (unless in the future they want to) and I’m going to buy them each a small house as a wedding gift.
What are the core principles that guide your approach to training your girls?
The most important one is probably honesty, because they can sense that really well. If you lie or cheat them in some way then they’ll sense that and stop loving you very quickly. Even if you’re telling them something that you know will upset them, it’s much better than a comforting lie in my experience. This means I’ve said to girls things such as “I’m not in love with you yet” and “No, you’re not the most beautiful”, but that gives my words a genuineness and value that they otherwise wouldn’t have. It gives my compliments true weight, and (perhaps more importantly) my rules a firmness too.
“Even if you’re telling them something that you know will upset them, it’s much better than a comforting lie in my experience.”
What are some of the most significant challenges you've faced in training multiple submissives, and how have you addressed them?
Besides the jealousy, the biggest challenge is probably managing my time between them all. If I go more than a couple of days without seeing any one of them then I’ve let myself down; so between work, family, and exercise I stay pretty busy making sure I am close to all my girls.
Could you share any specific strategies, techniques, or rituals you've established that help maintain the structure within your dynamic?
The first one to evolve was simply giving each girl a collar unique to her, a fashionable day-collar that can be worn at all times and mark her as mine. After those, I invested in a few locking electric-shock collars; they can vibrate, make a beeping noise and also electrocute a bitch. Needless to say this has made training very easy. Then I added in other elements of connection, like constantly tracking each girl's phone so I could always know where she is, and sending and receiving Snapchat video messages with each girl every day.
“I invested in a few locking electric-shock collars; they can vibrate, make a beeping noise and also electrocute a bitch. Needless to say this has made training very easy.”
I also use weekly maintenance spankings to remind each of my bitches who owns her ass; nothing too punishing, no heavy wooden paddle or belt, but a few firm smacks across her naked ass to leave her a little sore and rather red for a day or so. I like to spread the girls’ buttocks apart with my hands before and after her spanking, to enjoy a good long look at her most private parts. I want her to feel exposed, vulnerable, and helpless. This regular physical discipline keeps each bitch in her place, teases her with the power I have over her and prevents her from ever forgetting what I can do to her.
Over time I’ve made other little rituals. For example, after I receive oral of any kind from a bitch (including when she sucks me clean after sex) she has to finish by gently and respectfully kissing each of my nuts, then my cockhead, all whilst making direct eye contact with me, before verbally thanking me.
Can you share the story behind the creation of patriarchal baptism and the meaning it has for you and your girls?
Oh certainly, that’s probably my biggest and most complicated ritual. I really like rituals, they really add weight and significance to a bitch’s submission. This one began simply as a more amusing name for giving a girl a facial, calling it a baptism seemed fun. Over time I evolved it and gave it more meaning, making it far more ritualistic and complicated. By the time I got the first of my current harem it was perfected into the relatively lengthy ritual that it is now.
Whilst this isn’t a requirement for the baptism, I’ve been lucky in that I’ve only performed this full patriarchal baptism on girls who’ve clearly never been given a facial before. I think when selecting for girls I’ll be with regularly I tend to go for slightly more innocent girls, as seeing their nervousness and excitement is pleasing. All of my current bitches were facial-virgins before they met me and I’m sure that gives this first heavily-ritualised facial far more gravitas and meaning for both of us.
“All of my current bitches were facial-virgins before they met me and I’m sure that gives this first heavily-ritualised facial far more gravitas and meaning for both of us.”
How do you and your girls prepare for the ritual?
It always takes place over the course of a long weekend, Friday to Sunday. Me and the bitch will spend the whole weekend together, just me and her, having at least a couple of dates (a good restaurant or two, a trip in the countryside, etc.) and generally being emotionally intimate and close.
Usually I cum at least once a day, but for the sake of giving a new bitch a really heavy load I always hold off for a while. I’ll still have her suck my cock a few times on each day though; to entertain me, to show her continuing submission, and to further help fill my nuts up for the baptism.
We will have sex too, but I don’t let either of us orgasm; though I’ll edge her a bunch too. It makes her frustrated, extra horny, and more desperate for the final stage to arrive. We will also spend these days discussing ideas for things that either of us want to include in the contract of ownership that comes before the baptism.
Could you walk us through what happens during a patriarchal baptism?
After about two and a half days of the above preparation, we’re obviously both super horny, but that’s just preparation really, it’s on the Sunday that the real ritual happens. It comes in three distinct stages: the writing, the documentation and the baptism itself, all of which are recorded on film.
The writing is very traditional in kinky circles, it’s basically a BDSM contact, formalising in writing my ownership of the bitch. She kneels naked on the floor and writes out the whole contract by hand, so it can take awhile. Each contract is unique to each girl, giving it a uniqueness to her. She’ll read the papers out for the camera, we both sign everything, and then I lift her up from the floor and give her a kiss.
Next is the documentation stage, this is the part that tends to make the girl most nervous, but with reassurance and support they’ve always enjoyed it in the end. It's a very thorough documentation of the bitch because I use a very high quality DSLR camera to photograph every single inch of the bitch’s naked body, in every pose imaginable (including close-ups of each hole, each udder and drooling ahegao face) all whilst she holds up her photo ID. After the initial photography I’ll often add in body writing too, to further degrade the bitch.
Obviously displaying every private part of herself next to her photo ID is very scary for any girl, but it really builds so much trust once it’s done. It’s a massive act of submission, arguably actually greater than the baptism itself.
“Obviously displaying every private part of herself next to her photo ID is very scary for any girl, but it really builds so much trust once it’s done. It’s a massive act of submission, arguably actually greater than the baptism itself.”
Finally, after all that, comes the actual patriarchal baptism. She kneels naked at my feet and sucks my cock, then just before I orgasm I’ll pull out of her mouth and piss my massive load all over her upturned face, anointing her as my property. It’s so good to see her drenched in my seed for the first time. It really does feel like a strange sort of holy baptism.
Then I’ll finish up by taking a few more photos of her (including some with her ID) as it drips down her face and allowing her to touch herself to her own climax. This teaches her to associate the feeling of my semen on her face with her sexual relief and also forces her to make some rather amusing orgasm faces whilst she’s drizzled in my cum. So in the end we both get a super strong orgasm and she is fully cemented as mine.
This concludes the first part of English Patriarch’s feature. Here’s the link to Part 2.
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Meet our April Member of the Month, English Patriarch, and his four bitches: Erin, Jackie, Kendal, and Alice.
He has always been a natural dom in his younger years. But perhaps more fascinating is the transformative experience he has undertaken with one of his subs, Alice. Once calling herself he/him/they/them, she has reconnected with her femininity through her submission to him.
Read more about English Patriarch and his experiences with the four girls below.
When did you first realize you’re a dom/patriarch? Can you share the experience with us?
Ever since I can remember I have enjoyed being in charge, and found it easy. I was always the tallest growing up with the strongest, most well-spoken voice. This gave me a lot of natural power. Though I never actually heard the word “dom” at all until my first ever girlfriend said I was one, I remember it feeling like a compliment.
What were your first steps exploring being a dom? How did you start learning about it? And what resources, mentors (if any), and other learning experiences were the most helpful?
I think my first mentor was my father. Seeing how he’d treat my mother, and her response to it, was very educational. I saw him spank her ass playfully around the house, he’d sometimes grab her by one udder and pull her in for a kiss, and she enjoyed that treatment. There were times when they were both talking and he’d simply say the word “Quiet”, and she’d immediately go silent.
I think that informed how I see the natural male/female dynamic. My father and I would sometimes talk about girls (he’s too old fashioned to call them “bitches”) and I’d learn about what worked and what didn't directly from him. We never discussed details, like fetishes or such, but learning the basics early on is such a massive head-start.
Can you recall your first experience as a dom? What was the scenario, and how did it feel to embrace this role for the first time?
Caption: Erin’s unique trait is that she was the only one who came to me as a true virgin and she’s debatably the most devoted to me. She acts as my secretary and assistant now.
Ahh, but what does it mean exactly to have a dominating experience? If I win a tickle fight with a girl by tickling inside her until she wets herself in happiness, am I dominating her? Perhaps it was then. Was it when my first “official” girlfriend asked me to be her first boyfriend, and I agreed but only if she’d call me “Sir” regularly in front of both of our friends? Or maybe my first time dominating a girl was when I first introduced bondage toys into the bedroom? I’m pretty sure my first use of such props was a simple length of rope that I’d bought from a DIY store.
Were there any misconceptions you had about being a dom that were dispelled through your experiences?
I’ve made some misjudgements along the way, I think the most important of which was that I used to foolishly think that bitches knew themselves and knew their own limits, that I could take them at their word: completely wrong. They’d say things like “I have a very high pain tolerance” or “I’d never actually be hurt by degrading words” and then what do you know they were incorrect and it’d end in tears. So I’ve learned to slow down and understand that even if a bitch is begging for X that doesn’t mean she can actually take it.
“I used to foolishly think that bitches knew themselves and knew their own limits, that I could take them at their word: completely wrong.”
Are there any significant turning points in your life as a dom that stand out to you, and how did these affect your approach to BDSM?
Caption: Jackie has (in my opinion) the prettiest face, with the most beautiful smile, plus she dresses the best. Her pure femininity shines through constantly and is real joy. She’s also the closest to me in terms of personality, we share quite a lot in common.
I’ve never talked about this online before but the biggest turning point for me, in terms of how I act, happened when I was 19. I fucked this really hot cunt who said she was single.
We didn’t do anything weird, nothing unusual or scary, and I know that everything we did was 110% consensual because I was there and she was asking me to do all these things to her. I also didn’t photograph or film anything, because I was younger then and it just wasn’t my style at the time.
Turned out she did have a boyfriend and had told him and her friends that I’d raped her. My guess is she expected me to brag about fucking her (which I never did because I’m a gentleman) and wanted to get ahead of that before her boyfriend found out. Some of her friends knew a few of my friends and the next thing you know people aren’t talking to me and I can’t even understand why.
After like a month of this one of our mutual friends eventually tells me what I’ve allegedly done wrong and I finally found out she’s been lying to everyone and saying I abused her. I was still young and much less experienced than I was now, so I was shocked by all this.
However, the story ends well for me because within a week of finding out about her lying I’d confronted her about it, got her to admit to lying and actually apologise to me for making it all up. Then we had another very passionate play session. She’d never even been spanked before but to earn my forgiveness she lay over my lap and thanked me for every spank against her bare bottom.
After that I got her to beg to choke on my hard cock and when I fucked her I made sure she came very hard (including her first ever squirting orgasm) about a dozen times. A few times as I fucked her I even got her to admit she was a lying slut who didn’t deserve my cock.
All of that: her admission of lying, her apology to me, our hours long and undeniably consensual sex… all of that I got on audio recording. I never uploaded it to the internet but I played it for just enough of our mutual friends to definitively prove my innocence. She lost a lot of popularity after that and I ended up in a year long relationship with her best friend.
Caption: Alice has the biggest and best udders (natural 32HH) and gives the best head. Girls always struggle to deepthroat me, but no one else tries as hard as Alice and I really appreciate that. She also has the best smell, something I’ve really grown to enjoy.
“She’d never even been spanked before but to earn my forgiveness she lay over my lap and thanked me for every spank against her bare bottom. After that I got her to beg to choke on my hard cock and when I fucked her I made sure she came very hard (including her first ever squirting orgasm) about a dozen times. A few times as I fucked her I even got her to admit she was a lying slut who didn’t deserve my cock.”
That was a massive turning point for me because after that I’ve always been very careful to make sure that I would never be placed in that situation ever again. Not only do I photograph and film basically everything sexual that I do now, but I also always make sure to send the “Hope you had a good night baby, I had such a great time xx” text and get a positive response back.
Learning to keep yourself safe and protecting your reputation as a man is now more important than ever. You cannot control what others may say about you; but you can do things to arm yourself against lies.
“You cannot control what others may say about you; but you can do things to arm yourself against lies.”
Can you describe a typical day with your girls?
My days almost always begin the same way, being awoken by a long slow blowjob. This task falls to whichever of my bitches is in bed with me at the time. The rest of my day varies a lot, but always includes at least an hour of exercise. I’ll make sure to spend a few hours each day with at least one of my girls, two if I have the time. Having a nice lunch or dinner out with them every few days helps them understand that they are each valued and cared for.
Having four regular girls (and more on the side) requires a mix of skills. How would you describe your leadership style to maintain peace, order, and overall happiness for everybody?
How would I describe my leadership style? Brutal authoritarian dictatorship. All my bitches know they can leave at any time, no questions asked. If they’ve misbehaved in some way then they get punished in some way, if they don’t want to take the punishment then they gotta go.
“How would I describe my leadership style? Brutal authoritarian dictatorship.”
How do you tailor your approach to fit each of your girls’ unique personalities and needs?
Caption: Kendal is the most sexually experienced, which comes with its own advantages of course. She also has the highest pain tolerance, which can be useful if I’ve had a hard day and want to work off some frustration.
I don’t alter my technique that much girl-to-girl, but I do use different levels of speed and directness depending on the girl’s level of experience. With a bitch who’s more sexually experienced I can be less patient, more immediately demanding and even more direct. Whereas with a less experienced bitch I’ll show more patience and take things slightly slower as to not scare her.
How do you address feelings of jealousy within your dynamic, if jealousy takes place at all?
This is honestly the hardest part to deal with. Jealousy is a massive factor when you have multiple bitches who all know about each other and who spend a lot of time together, especially as the feelings intensify over time.
I used to be a lot less strict about how the girls could talk about each other, even when the other ones aren’t around. I’ve since realised that I can’t let them disrespect each other even if the target cannot hear it. So they aren’t allowed to talk negatively about each other, and must instead simply strive to be the best partners they can be to me. I make it absolutely clear to them that trying to put another girl down is just an insult to me, but having them not say it only hides the jealousy, it doesn’t actually remove it. I therefore have individualised little ways of showing each girl that I care for her and that she’s special to me.
“I can’t let them disrespect each other even if the target cannot hear it. So they aren’t allowed to talk negatively about each other, and must instead simply strive to be the best partners they can be to me.”
What are your long-term goals for you and your girls, and how do you plan to achieve them while considering the evolving needs of each of them?
My longest-term goal is to get married a few times (non-legally so the state isn’t involved) and to have a bunch of kids. I want several wives and at least half a dozen children. I’m also a big believer in home schooling so all my girls know that’s where the future is going and I’m glad to say they’ll all very much onboard with it. I don’t expect my wives to live together (unless in the future they want to) and I’m going to buy them each a small house as a wedding gift.
What are the core principles that guide your approach to training your girls?
The most important one is probably honesty, because they can sense that really well. If you lie or cheat them in some way then they’ll sense that and stop loving you very quickly. Even if you’re telling them something that you know will upset them, it’s much better than a comforting lie in my experience. This means I’ve said to girls things such as “I’m not in love with you yet” and “No, you’re not the most beautiful”, but that gives my words a genuineness and value that they otherwise wouldn’t have. It gives my compliments true weight, and (perhaps more importantly) my rules a firmness too.
“Even if you’re telling them something that you know will upset them, it’s much better than a comforting lie in my experience.”
What are some of the most significant challenges you've faced in training multiple submissives, and how have you addressed them?
Besides the jealousy, the biggest challenge is probably managing my time between them all. If I go more than a couple of days without seeing any one of them then I’ve let myself down; so between work, family, and exercise I stay pretty busy making sure I am close to all my girls.
Could you share any specific strategies, techniques, or rituals you've established that help maintain the structure within your dynamic?
The first one to evolve was simply giving each girl a collar unique to her, a fashionable day-collar that can be worn at all times and mark her as mine. After those, I invested in a few locking electric-shock collars; they can vibrate, make a beeping noise and also electrocute a bitch. Needless to say this has made training very easy. Then I added in other elements of connection, like constantly tracking each girl's phone so I could always know where she is, and sending and receiving Snapchat video messages with each girl every day.
“I invested in a few locking electric-shock collars; they can vibrate, make a beeping noise and also electrocute a bitch. Needless to say this has made training very easy.”
I also use weekly maintenance spankings to remind each of my bitches who owns her ass; nothing too punishing, no heavy wooden paddle or belt, but a few firm smacks across her naked ass to leave her a little sore and rather red for a day or so. I like to spread the girls’ buttocks apart with my hands before and after her spanking, to enjoy a good long look at her most private parts. I want her to feel exposed, vulnerable, and helpless. This regular physical discipline keeps each bitch in her place, teases her with the power I have over her and prevents her from ever forgetting what I can do to her.
Over time I’ve made other little rituals. For example, after I receive oral of any kind from a bitch (including when she sucks me clean after sex) she has to finish by gently and respectfully kissing each of my nuts, then my cockhead, all whilst making direct eye contact with me, before verbally thanking me.
Can you share the story behind the creation of patriarchal baptism and the meaning it has for you and your girls?
Oh certainly, that’s probably my biggest and most complicated ritual. I really like rituals, they really add weight and significance to a bitch’s submission. This one began simply as a more amusing name for giving a girl a facial, calling it a baptism seemed fun. Over time I evolved it and gave it more meaning, making it far more ritualistic and complicated. By the time I got the first of my current harem it was perfected into the relatively lengthy ritual that it is now.
Whilst this isn’t a requirement for the baptism, I’ve been lucky in that I’ve only performed this full patriarchal baptism on girls who’ve clearly never been given a facial before. I think when selecting for girls I’ll be with regularly I tend to go for slightly more innocent girls, as seeing their nervousness and excitement is pleasing. All of my current bitches were facial-virgins before they met me and I’m sure that gives this first heavily-ritualised facial far more gravitas and meaning for both of us.
“All of my current bitches were facial-virgins before they met me and I’m sure that gives this first heavily-ritualised facial far more gravitas and meaning for both of us.”
How do you and your girls prepare for the ritual?
It always takes place over the course of a long weekend, Friday to Sunday. Me and the bitch will spend the whole weekend together, just me and her, having at least a couple of dates (a good restaurant or two, a trip in the countryside, etc.) and generally being emotionally intimate and close.
Usually I cum at least once a day, but for the sake of giving a new bitch a really heavy load I always hold off for a while. I’ll still have her suck my cock a few times on each day though; to entertain me, to show her continuing submission, and to further help fill my nuts up for the baptism.
We will have sex too, but I don’t let either of us orgasm; though I’ll edge her a bunch too. It makes her frustrated, extra horny, and more desperate for the final stage to arrive. We will also spend these days discussing ideas for things that either of us want to include in the contract of ownership that comes before the baptism.
Could you walk us through what happens during a patriarchal baptism?
After about two and a half days of the above preparation, we’re obviously both super horny, but that’s just preparation really, it’s on the Sunday that the real ritual happens. It comes in three distinct stages: the writing, the documentation and the baptism itself, all of which are recorded on film.
The writing is very traditional in kinky circles, it’s basically a BDSM contact, formalising in writing my ownership of the bitch. She kneels naked on the floor and writes out the whole contract by hand, so it can take awhile. Each contract is unique to each girl, giving it a uniqueness to her. She’ll read the papers out for the camera, we both sign everything, and then I lift her up from the floor and give her a kiss.
Next is the documentation stage, this is the part that tends to make the girl most nervous, but with reassurance and support they’ve always enjoyed it in the end. It's a very thorough documentation of the bitch because I use a very high quality DSLR camera to photograph every single inch of the bitch’s naked body, in every pose imaginable (including close-ups of each hole, each udder and drooling ahegao face) all whilst she holds up her photo ID. After the initial photography I’ll often add in body writing too, to further degrade the bitch.
Obviously displaying every private part of herself next to her photo ID is very scary for any girl, but it really builds so much trust once it’s done. It’s a massive act of submission, arguably actually greater than the baptism itself.
“Obviously displaying every private part of herself next to her photo ID is very scary for any girl, but it really builds so much trust once it’s done. It’s a massive act of submission, arguably actually greater than the baptism itself.”
Finally, after all that, comes the actual patriarchal baptism. She kneels naked at my feet and sucks my cock, then just before I orgasm I’ll pull out of her mouth and piss my massive load all over her upturned face, anointing her as my property. It’s so good to see her drenched in my seed for the first time. It really does feel like a strange sort of holy baptism.
Then I’ll finish up by taking a few more photos of her (including some with her ID) as it drips down her face and allowing her to touch herself to her own climax. This teaches her to associate the feeling of my semen on her face with her sexual relief and also forces her to make some rather amusing orgasm faces whilst she’s drizzled in my cum. So in the end we both get a super strong orgasm and she is fully cemented as mine.
This concludes the first part of English Patriarch’s feature. Here’s the link to Part 2.
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