Meet our April Member of the Month, English Patriarch, and his four bitches: Erin, Jackie, Kendal, and Alice. This is Part 2 of our feature on English Patriarch. You can check out Part 1 here.
Can you introduce your girls? What’s the story of how you met each of them? And what’s a unique quality or trait they bring to your dynamic?
I have four regular bitches in my harem at the moment, all in their twenties: Erin (22), Alice (23), Kendal (27) and Jackie (25).
I met Erin at a party several years ago now, whilst she was still a teenager. She was so devoted to my happiness that she then introduced me to her friend Kendal. Jackie found me through my blog and Alice I found on Tinder.
Erin’s unique trait is that she was the only one who came to me as a true virgin and she’s debatably the most devoted to me. She acts as my secretary and assistant now.
Kendal is the most sexually experienced, which comes with its own advantages of course. She also has the highest pain tolerance, which can be useful if I’ve had a hard day and want to work off some frustration.
Jackie has (in my opinion) the prettiest face, with the most beautiful smile, plus she dresses the best. Her pure femininity shines through constantly and is real joy. She’s also the closest to me in terms of personality, we share quite a lot in common.
Alice has the biggest and best udders (natural 32HH) and gives the best head. Girls always struggle to deepthroat me, but no one else tries as hard as Alice and I really appreciate that. She also has the best smell, something I’ve really grown to enjoy.
Are there areas where you see room for improvement in each of your girls?
Oh, no one is perfect. Erin’s sex drive could be higher and she needs to lose some weight. Kendal could be less afraid of throwing up from giving me head, and actually eat more consistently without needing to be prompted. Alice could be able to cry from a spanking, and speak slightly softer as she’s a little loud. Jackie could have a greater appreciation for dark humour and be more open to becoming a mother someday.
Could you share a moment or experience you've had with each girl that stands out for you?
With Kendal I think that the most memorable time was when she brought a couple of her friends over and I had my first foursome (MFFF).
For Jackie the most impactful moment was when we started to trust each other enough to share sensitive information. She learned my real face and name, and I got naked ID photos of her.
The most memorable moment for Erin and Alice is the same. They’ve never gotten along very well, but it’s something we’re working on. We were sat around playing Cards Against Humanity (I have almost every card ever printed) with a bunch of friends. Alice was sat immediately on my left and Erin was sat across from me, and it was my turn to judge. The black card prompt was “God damnit, the wife’s annoyed at _____ again!” There were a few good answers but the winning one was “the slut to my left”, which turned out to be played by Erin. 😂
How have you seen each of your girls evolve since the beginning of your D/s relationship with them?
Kendal became much more healthy, stopped smoking and began eating properly. I’ve trained Jackie into doing daily exercises to help make her hotter and less depressed. Erin’s started losing weight and becoming much tidier and more domestically competent, and Alice has completely changed! When I met Alice she was identifying as a man, with much shorter hair, wearing masculine clothing and going by a masculine name: now she’s a happy and beautiful dress-only girly girl.
Transforming Alice was one of the most rewarding outcomes you’ve seen as a result of your training her. Can you share how you adapted your training methods and strategies working with someone who presents more challenges than others?
I changed my approach by being a bit softer overall, taking much longer than I normally would to mold her into the bitch that I wanted. I think the most important thing was positive reinforcement, constant encouragement and many, many compliments to her natural femininity. Telling her how beautiful she looks, how rare her udder size is (32HH) and how lucky she is to have them, telling her she’ll make a wonderful mother etc. I dealt with her gender dysphoria in a similar way to dealing with bitches who’ve been mentally ruined by feminism, but I was actually quite a bit softer than normal.
Instead of telling her that her ideas were simply wrong (as I would do with a feminist who believed males and females are the same for example) I instead focused on making her feel comfortable and confident in who she naturally is.
“I think the most important thing was positive reinforcement, constant encouragement and many, many compliments to her natural femininity.”
What initial steps did you take to understand and address the underlying issues?
The most immediate issue was that of her pronouns. I’m not here to attack anyone’s personal choices regarding such things, and I think making that clear was important when I first met Alice.
However I made it known on our first date that I wouldn’t feel comfortable being in a real relationship with someone who insisted on me referring to them with they/them/he/him pronouns. I said that it would feel disingenuous because ultimately I saw her as a beautiful lady and not as a man; it would feel like I was lying to her just to make her happy and I wasn’t willing to do that. I said that using masculine pronouns for her would build an emotional wall between us and prevent me from truly feeling close to her.
Naturally she didn’t want that barrier between us, so she understood that I’d use female pronouns when referring to her. Over time she’s become completely comfortable with them again. Just as gender dysphoria is a real thing, so too is gender euphoria, and I’m pleased that I can help her experience that.
How do you approach training her mental and emotional aspects?
I think I actually use a surprisingly degree of delicacy. Curing gender dysphoria is a lengthy, mentally arduous process. It requires encouragement and reassurance. It’s been made a lot easier for both of us however because I have always held an unwavering certainty that this re-feminisation process (for Alice in particular, I am not saying this is the solution for all trans men) will ultimately make Alice happier and healthier, and I’m glad to say that so far I’ve definitely been right. Doubting that would have caused us both much more stress than necessary.
I found that the best time to tackle her gender dysphoria was actually during sex. I’d be moving my cock inside her, making her feel very happy, and then I’d talk to her about how this was what she was made for, why she was born with these parts, how she was always meant to be used. The physical pleasure and the joy of submission made her mind much more receptive to those re-feminisation ideas.
“I’d be moving my cock inside her, making her feel very happy, and then I’d talk to her about how this was what she was made for, why she was born with these parts, how she was always meant to be used. The physical pleasure and the joy of submission made her mind much more receptive to those re-feminisation ideas.”
Eventually I began denying her permission to orgasm unless she said things like “I love being a girl, now make me cum with your big cock Sir”, “Thank you for fucking my pussy Sir”, and eventually “I want you to breed me Sir, I want to carry your babies.” Having her think these thoughts and say them out loud, forcing her to admit her appreciation for her natural sexual organs, was a big part of making her love being a girl again.
In time I moved onto telling her my plans for her whilst I was fucking her. I told her that I was going to make her grow her hair long, only wear skirts and dresses, and change her name. I chose the name Alice for her whilst I was inside her; she told me that was a beautiful name and promised me she’d only go by that from then on, and I’m glad to say she’s happily kept that promise.
How do you build and establish trust, especially during her more difficult moments?
I think once again that not lying to her was super important here. A lot of men would lie to a girl (for example by pretending to see her as a man when in fact they just see her as just another girl to fuck) simply to get laid, and I think girls instinctively know that they’re being lied to for sex, and that invariably destroys trust. By talking to her honestly, even if that means saying things that might make her uncomfortable, I can establish real trust.
As we cuddled after one particularly intense sex session, with lots of verbal degradation, Alice asked me if I actually respected her. This was a difficult moment for her; she was insecure and worried that I didn’t care about her. I explained that there are different kinds of respect; the basic courtesy we show to everyone (don’t tread on someone’s toes, don’t spit in someone’s face, etc.) and then there is real respect that we hold for the people we admire and wish to be like.
I told her I didn’t respect her in that sense because I don’t envy her, she doesn’t have a talent or a skill that I envy, but I do care for and cherish her. Just as a parent cares for, nurtures, and protects their child, without looking up to them as an idol. Answering her question so completely and with such honesty, when most men would have simply said “Yes, baby, of course I respect you”, gives my words a sincerity that they wouldn’t otherwise have. This is how she grew to trust me and follow my advice.
“Answering her question so completely and with such honesty, when most men would have simply said “Yes, baby, of course I respect you”, gives my words a sincerity that they wouldn’t otherwise have. This is how she grew to trust me and follow my advice.”
How do you support Alice who, we suspect, struggles more with submission than the rest of the girls?
Actually that’s not the case at all, she’s very submissive sexually which is one of the reasons I was so confident in my belief that she’d be happier as the bitch that she is. The hardest part of her submission was her intellectual submission, letting go of her harmful false ideas. Occasionally she’d say some stupid feminist nonsense, I’d need to correct her and then sometimes she’d actually argue back! Then I’d need to not only prove to her how wrong she was, but punish her for arguing with me. To that end I bought her a “Women shouldn’t vote” t-shirt and made her wear it for a week to teach her a lesson; she really found that embarrassing but she did learn to listen.
How do you keep training Alice so she remains engaged with you and the other girls?
Alice finds it harder to get along with the other girls than most. She struggles with social interaction, particularly if the group is more than a few people. She is getting better but often needs to go and be in a quiet room for a while to just read by herself. Giving her some space and not forcing her into situations she isn’t ready for is key.
How has the experience of training Alice contributed to your growth as a Dom?
I think it’s made me a bit more patient. If I’d just tried to steamroll through her issues and change her straight away I suspect I’d have failed. A while ago I wouldn’t have even gone on a date with someone who wasn’t completely in her feminine; but because I gave Alice a chance and saw the natural beauty inside her, I’ve been rewarded with a loving and devoted beautiful little pet.
Based on your experiences in training multiple submissives, what advice would you offer to doms who are new to managing and training more than one submissive?
I’d say that the most important thing is to set hard boundaries and not let the bitches cross them. A bitch doesn’t want a weak man, and a man is weak if she can manipulate him — do not let your bitches control you at all because deep down they know if they can alter you, so can the rest of the world.
“A bitch doesn’t want a weak man, and a man is weak if she can manipulate him.”
Don’t let them bad mouth each other, that’s a big one. Make them each feel intimately connected to you, message each bitch every day, keep yourself in their thoughts. If they feel like you’re just using them for sex and they aren’t valued for any other reason then they’re far more likely to be disobedient and disloyal.
“If they feel like you’re just using them for sex and they aren’t valued for any other reason then they’re far more likely to be disobedient and disloyal.”
Most importantly remember that there is only so far you can Dom them; never try to make them do things they obviously really don’t want to do. For example, if they aren’t getting along then trying to force a threesome to happen is a truly terrible idea. Treat them with care and love and they’ll give that back to you.
(Editor’s Note: Sometimes, we verify the authenticity of our members to maintain the trust and safety of our community. We’re happy to confirm that English Patriarch is genuine and that Erin, Alice, Jackie, and Kendal have given explicit consent via video to have their pictures and videos posted by English Patriarch online. For more of English Patriarch’s content, you cancheck him out on X.)
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Meet our April Member of the Month, English Patriarch, and his four bitches: Erin, Jackie, Kendal, and Alice. This is Part 2 of our feature on English Patriarch. You can check out Part 1 here.
Can you introduce your girls? What’s the story of how you met each of them? And what’s a unique quality or trait they bring to your dynamic?
I have four regular bitches in my harem at the moment, all in their twenties: Erin (22), Alice (23), Kendal (27) and Jackie (25).
I met Erin at a party several years ago now, whilst she was still a teenager. She was so devoted to my happiness that she then introduced me to her friend Kendal. Jackie found me through my blog and Alice I found on Tinder.
Erin’s unique trait is that she was the only one who came to me as a true virgin and she’s debatably the most devoted to me. She acts as my secretary and assistant now.
Kendal is the most sexually experienced, which comes with its own advantages of course. She also has the highest pain tolerance, which can be useful if I’ve had a hard day and want to work off some frustration.
Jackie has (in my opinion) the prettiest face, with the most beautiful smile, plus she dresses the best. Her pure femininity shines through constantly and is real joy. She’s also the closest to me in terms of personality, we share quite a lot in common.
Alice has the biggest and best udders (natural 32HH) and gives the best head. Girls always struggle to deepthroat me, but no one else tries as hard as Alice and I really appreciate that. She also has the best smell, something I’ve really grown to enjoy.
Are there areas where you see room for improvement in each of your girls?
Oh, no one is perfect. Erin’s sex drive could be higher and she needs to lose some weight. Kendal could be less afraid of throwing up from giving me head, and actually eat more consistently without needing to be prompted. Alice could be able to cry from a spanking, and speak slightly softer as she’s a little loud. Jackie could have a greater appreciation for dark humour and be more open to becoming a mother someday.
Could you share a moment or experience you've had with each girl that stands out for you?
With Kendal I think that the most memorable time was when she brought a couple of her friends over and I had my first foursome (MFFF).
For Jackie the most impactful moment was when we started to trust each other enough to share sensitive information. She learned my real face and name, and I got naked ID photos of her.
The most memorable moment for Erin and Alice is the same. They’ve never gotten along very well, but it’s something we’re working on. We were sat around playing Cards Against Humanity (I have almost every card ever printed) with a bunch of friends. Alice was sat immediately on my left and Erin was sat across from me, and it was my turn to judge. The black card prompt was “God damnit, the wife’s annoyed at _____ again!” There were a few good answers but the winning one was “the slut to my left”, which turned out to be played by Erin. 😂
How have you seen each of your girls evolve since the beginning of your D/s relationship with them?
Kendal became much more healthy, stopped smoking and began eating properly. I’ve trained Jackie into doing daily exercises to help make her hotter and less depressed. Erin’s started losing weight and becoming much tidier and more domestically competent, and Alice has completely changed! When I met Alice she was identifying as a man, with much shorter hair, wearing masculine clothing and going by a masculine name: now she’s a happy and beautiful dress-only girly girl.
Transforming Alice was one of the most rewarding outcomes you’ve seen as a result of your training her. Can you share how you adapted your training methods and strategies working with someone who presents more challenges than others?
I changed my approach by being a bit softer overall, taking much longer than I normally would to mold her into the bitch that I wanted. I think the most important thing was positive reinforcement, constant encouragement and many, many compliments to her natural femininity. Telling her how beautiful she looks, how rare her udder size is (32HH) and how lucky she is to have them, telling her she’ll make a wonderful mother etc. I dealt with her gender dysphoria in a similar way to dealing with bitches who’ve been mentally ruined by feminism, but I was actually quite a bit softer than normal.
Instead of telling her that her ideas were simply wrong (as I would do with a feminist who believed males and females are the same for example) I instead focused on making her feel comfortable and confident in who she naturally is.
“I think the most important thing was positive reinforcement, constant encouragement and many, many compliments to her natural femininity.”
What initial steps did you take to understand and address the underlying issues?
The most immediate issue was that of her pronouns. I’m not here to attack anyone’s personal choices regarding such things, and I think making that clear was important when I first met Alice.
However I made it known on our first date that I wouldn’t feel comfortable being in a real relationship with someone who insisted on me referring to them with they/them/he/him pronouns. I said that it would feel disingenuous because ultimately I saw her as a beautiful lady and not as a man; it would feel like I was lying to her just to make her happy and I wasn’t willing to do that. I said that using masculine pronouns for her would build an emotional wall between us and prevent me from truly feeling close to her.
Naturally she didn’t want that barrier between us, so she understood that I’d use female pronouns when referring to her. Over time she’s become completely comfortable with them again. Just as gender dysphoria is a real thing, so too is gender euphoria, and I’m pleased that I can help her experience that.
How do you approach training her mental and emotional aspects?
I think I actually use a surprisingly degree of delicacy. Curing gender dysphoria is a lengthy, mentally arduous process. It requires encouragement and reassurance. It’s been made a lot easier for both of us however because I have always held an unwavering certainty that this re-feminisation process (for Alice in particular, I am not saying this is the solution for all trans men) will ultimately make Alice happier and healthier, and I’m glad to say that so far I’ve definitely been right. Doubting that would have caused us both much more stress than necessary.
I found that the best time to tackle her gender dysphoria was actually during sex. I’d be moving my cock inside her, making her feel very happy, and then I’d talk to her about how this was what she was made for, why she was born with these parts, how she was always meant to be used. The physical pleasure and the joy of submission made her mind much more receptive to those re-feminisation ideas.
“I’d be moving my cock inside her, making her feel very happy, and then I’d talk to her about how this was what she was made for, why she was born with these parts, how she was always meant to be used. The physical pleasure and the joy of submission made her mind much more receptive to those re-feminisation ideas.”
Eventually I began denying her permission to orgasm unless she said things like “I love being a girl, now make me cum with your big cock Sir”, “Thank you for fucking my pussy Sir”, and eventually “I want you to breed me Sir, I want to carry your babies.” Having her think these thoughts and say them out loud, forcing her to admit her appreciation for her natural sexual organs, was a big part of making her love being a girl again.
In time I moved onto telling her my plans for her whilst I was fucking her. I told her that I was going to make her grow her hair long, only wear skirts and dresses, and change her name. I chose the name Alice for her whilst I was inside her; she told me that was a beautiful name and promised me she’d only go by that from then on, and I’m glad to say she’s happily kept that promise.
How do you build and establish trust, especially during her more difficult moments?
I think once again that not lying to her was super important here. A lot of men would lie to a girl (for example by pretending to see her as a man when in fact they just see her as just another girl to fuck) simply to get laid, and I think girls instinctively know that they’re being lied to for sex, and that invariably destroys trust. By talking to her honestly, even if that means saying things that might make her uncomfortable, I can establish real trust.
As we cuddled after one particularly intense sex session, with lots of verbal degradation, Alice asked me if I actually respected her. This was a difficult moment for her; she was insecure and worried that I didn’t care about her. I explained that there are different kinds of respect; the basic courtesy we show to everyone (don’t tread on someone’s toes, don’t spit in someone’s face, etc.) and then there is real respect that we hold for the people we admire and wish to be like.
I told her I didn’t respect her in that sense because I don’t envy her, she doesn’t have a talent or a skill that I envy, but I do care for and cherish her. Just as a parent cares for, nurtures, and protects their child, without looking up to them as an idol. Answering her question so completely and with such honesty, when most men would have simply said “Yes, baby, of course I respect you”, gives my words a sincerity that they wouldn’t otherwise have. This is how she grew to trust me and follow my advice.
“Answering her question so completely and with such honesty, when most men would have simply said “Yes, baby, of course I respect you”, gives my words a sincerity that they wouldn’t otherwise have. This is how she grew to trust me and follow my advice.”
How do you support Alice who, we suspect, struggles more with submission than the rest of the girls?
Actually that’s not the case at all, she’s very submissive sexually which is one of the reasons I was so confident in my belief that she’d be happier as the bitch that she is. The hardest part of her submission was her intellectual submission, letting go of her harmful false ideas. Occasionally she’d say some stupid feminist nonsense, I’d need to correct her and then sometimes she’d actually argue back! Then I’d need to not only prove to her how wrong she was, but punish her for arguing with me. To that end I bought her a “Women shouldn’t vote” t-shirt and made her wear it for a week to teach her a lesson; she really found that embarrassing but she did learn to listen.
How do you keep training Alice so she remains engaged with you and the other girls?
Alice finds it harder to get along with the other girls than most. She struggles with social interaction, particularly if the group is more than a few people. She is getting better but often needs to go and be in a quiet room for a while to just read by herself. Giving her some space and not forcing her into situations she isn’t ready for is key.
How has the experience of training Alice contributed to your growth as a Dom?
I think it’s made me a bit more patient. If I’d just tried to steamroll through her issues and change her straight away I suspect I’d have failed. A while ago I wouldn’t have even gone on a date with someone who wasn’t completely in her feminine; but because I gave Alice a chance and saw the natural beauty inside her, I’ve been rewarded with a loving and devoted beautiful little pet.
Based on your experiences in training multiple submissives, what advice would you offer to doms who are new to managing and training more than one submissive?
I’d say that the most important thing is to set hard boundaries and not let the bitches cross them. A bitch doesn’t want a weak man, and a man is weak if she can manipulate him — do not let your bitches control you at all because deep down they know if they can alter you, so can the rest of the world.
“A bitch doesn’t want a weak man, and a man is weak if she can manipulate him.”
Don’t let them bad mouth each other, that’s a big one. Make them each feel intimately connected to you, message each bitch every day, keep yourself in their thoughts. If they feel like you’re just using them for sex and they aren’t valued for any other reason then they’re far more likely to be disobedient and disloyal.
“If they feel like you’re just using them for sex and they aren’t valued for any other reason then they’re far more likely to be disobedient and disloyal.”
Most importantly remember that there is only so far you can Dom them; never try to make them do things they obviously really don’t want to do. For example, if they aren’t getting along then trying to force a threesome to happen is a truly terrible idea. Treat them with care and love and they’ll give that back to you.
(Editor’s Note: Sometimes, we verify the authenticity of our members to maintain the trust and safety of our community. We’re happy to confirm that English Patriarch is genuine and that Erin, Alice, Jackie, and Kendal have given explicit consent via video to have their pictures and videos posted by English Patriarch online. For more of English Patriarch’s content, you can check him out on X.)
If you’ve got a kinky story of your own you’d like to share, send us a DM. We love chatting with community members, whatever your kinks are. Drop us a message and you could be the next community member we feature.)